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#To Yourself Be true and authentic* Part 1- Why knowing yourself before going into any relationship is important

August 28, 2013

Every one has dreams desires,and goals, most of them realistic and well some of them just need a little face lift.
We all go into relationships for different reasons,to discover ourselves , feel something , get the feeling of purpose that there is something and someone worth living for. All in all ;it’s about giving love and being loved in return and discovering each other and working as a team . Which brings me to my point of knowing I yourself,the good,the bad ,the scary and ugly.

Going into a relationship hoping to discover yourself is a huge mistake ,you cannot discover another person without knowing yourself at all that’s a big NO NO. It would be like trying to sail a ship with no stars or gps. Self Identity therefore is an important ingredient to being true to yourself and the one you love.

If you are blessed to have someone who loves you enough to give you time to discover yourself and who you are; you are incredibly lucky and blessed; sad truth is that most people subject themselves to emotional if not physical abuse because, your other half would find you weak and easy to pick on and you would begin to hate being in love because it was not your saving grace or what you needed at that point in time.
It is simple learn to know yourself in detail “self education” your strengths , weaknesses what makes you tick ,moody, happy and sad; so that when you begin to experience life and love with your significant other it will be educational ,fruitful, unforgettable &that you work through stuff together as a team.

Your significant other should compliment you and not complete you.

.K.C.Mmuoe

#Part 2; How to communicate and knowing the difference between being loving and being possessive

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